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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 22.06.2025 04:26

How does one succeed in life?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Why do narcissists devour so much sugar (candy, ice cream, donuts, etc., in huge amounts at a time)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Ask yourself:

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

What is the dirtiest thing you have allowed your husband to do?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Why did the Soviet Jews hate the Soviet Union?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Have you or anyone you know invested in cryptocurrencies before? If so, which one did you invest in and how much profit did you make?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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That's it for today.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

What have you learned from your parents' mistakes?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Does the pro-choice movement realise that all the money used to subside abortions can be used to subsidize daycare and other financial support for single mothers with unplanned pregnancies?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Does not procrastinate.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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What I need from you?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.